Ayden’s Journey of Transformation and Empowerment

At just 13 years old, Ayden felt lost – running from home, cycling through programs and hospitals, and struggling to find a sense of stability. “Deep down, I knew I had potential, but I couldn’t find a way to bring it to light,” he recalled.

For three years, each day felt like an uphill battle. But everything changed when he found The Sanctuary, Westchester County’s only runaway and homeless shelter specifically for teens. The Sanctuary provides a safe place to stay, individual and group counseling, family-style meals, and life coaching for youth returning to their communities. When the courts had no placement for him, they offered him the option to stay at the Sanctuary, giving him a chance to transition back into the community and off probation. It was a risk, but one that ultimately changed his life.

“At first, I didn’t give the program a real chance,” Ayden admitted. “But when I returned after a difficult time, including a hospital stay, I was ready. I needed the support more than ever, and I found it.” The Sanctuary staff provided not just guidance but genuine care. They gave him space to make mistakes and the encouragement to move forward.

Now, Ayden is channeling his journey into something greater—helping others. He recently stepped into a new role as a youth advocate at The Children’s Village, using his firsthand experiences to support teens facing similar struggles. We deeply value the power of lived experience and trust young people to help shape our work. “I know what it’s like to feel unheard, and I want to be a voice for other teens who need support,” he shared. “The Sanctuary helped show me that change is possible, and now I want to do the same for others.”

Ayden’s journey is proof that with the right support, transformation is always possible.